My father passed away last month. Once he was in a better place and finally at peace, the time came to go through many of his belongings and help my mother organize her new life. Part of that process was to empty out the old house. We did just that last weekend.
We had an estate sale to turn my parents old effects into some use able cash for my mother. I was assigned to work the cash box. I sat in that old garage in Corpus Christi and made change for folks as they bargained on the Hardy family icons. Strangers and old friends alike strolled through the home and picked through stacks of records, old books, furniture, board games, dishes, sheet music, and picture albums. As these items came out to me and folks made offers on what they would pay, I realized that they were getting a good look at, and purchasing our family heritage. Not the heritage and memories themselves of course, but the icons that represent what we are. Not what we were, but what we are.
We are a family of musicians as evidenced by the sheet music and musical instruments for sale. We are a family of motocross riders, surfers, and music lovers as seen in the pictures of what our family members did on the weekends. We are a family of spiritual people as seen by the books in the library. We are a family of had workers as seen by the construction tools for sale in the shop.
We had an estate sale to turn my parents old effects into some use able cash for my mother. I was assigned to work the cash box. I sat in that old garage in Corpus Christi and made change for folks as they bargained on the Hardy family icons. Strangers and old friends alike strolled through the home and picked through stacks of records, old books, furniture, board games, dishes, sheet music, and picture albums. As these items came out to me and folks made offers on what they would pay, I realized that they were getting a good look at, and purchasing our family heritage. Not the heritage and memories themselves of course, but the icons that represent what we are. Not what we were, but what we are.
We are a family of musicians as evidenced by the sheet music and musical instruments for sale. We are a family of motocross riders, surfers, and music lovers as seen in the pictures of what our family members did on the weekends. We are a family of spiritual people as seen by the books in the library. We are a family of had workers as seen by the construction tools for sale in the shop.
I realized that the people that purchased our old cast offs were getting a look at who we are today and that they liked it. They asked questions about the books and about the images they saw in old albums. People laughed and we laughed with them when one of us told a story about an old baseball bat or funky pair of sunglasses. It is an honor to realize that we are a family of people that other people like. Its a good history. Its good to know that we are a good part of the community.
We still surf. We still ride motorcycles. We still pray. We still work hard. We still laugh. This is our heritage